Wajibkah Kaum Wanita Menuntut Ilmu ?

Al-Imam Ibnu Jauzi ada mengarang sebuah kitab bertajuk Ahkam an-Nisa’.  Buku ini menghuraikan hukum-hakam yang berkaitan dengan wanita. Al-Imam Ibn al-Jauzi rahimahullah menuliskan sebuah bab yang bertajuk:

الباب الثالث في وجوبِ طلب العلْم على المرأة

Bab Ketiga: Kewajipan Menuntut Ilmu Untuk Wanita

Imam Ibn al-Jauzi menyatakan:

Wanita adalah insan yang diletakkan kewajipan atau tanggunjawab sebagaimana lelaki. Wajib ke atas seorang wanita untuk menuntut ilmu yang wajib untuk dirinya agar dia dapat menunaikan kewajipan dengan penuh keyakinan.

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Lelaki Dapat Bidadari di Syurga, Wanita??

Pertanyaan:

Disebutkan bahawa kaum lelaki akan memperolehi bidadari di jannah (syurga), lalu bagi kaum wanitanya?

Jawapan:

Pertama : Jika para wanita dunia beriman dan beramal soleh maka mereka juga akan mendapatkan kenikmatan para bidadara sebagaimana ditunjukkan oleh keumuman ayat-ayat yang menegaskan bahawasanya bagi para penduduk syurga segala apa yang mereka inginkan dan hasratkan. Allah Tabaraka wa Ta’ala berfirman mengenai nikmat yang diperolehi penghuni syurga,

﴿وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَشْتَهِي أَنفُسُكُمْ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَدَّعُونَ. نُزُلاً مِّنْ غَفُورٍ رَّحِيمٍ﴾

“Di dalamnya kamu memperolehi segala sesuatu yang kamu inginkan dan kamu pun memperolehi segala sesuatu yang kamu cinta. Sebagai hidangan (bagimu) daripada (Rabb) Yang Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang.” (Qs. Fushshilat: 31–32)

﴿وَفِيهَا مَا تَشْتَهِيهِ الْأَنفُسُ وَتَلَذُّ الْأَعْيُنُ وَأَنتُمْ فِيهَا خَالِدُونَ﴾

“Di dalam jannah itu terdapat segala apa yang diinginkan oleh hati dan sedap (dipandang) mata, dan kamu kekal di dalamnya.”(Qs. az-Zukhruf: 71)

Sudah maklum juga bahawa “zuwaj” (pasangan hidup) merupakan hal yang diinginkan oleh hati dan ini akan diperolehi oleh ahli syurga, baik yang lelaki mahupun wanita. Dan kenikmatan syurga bukanlah diciptakan dan disediakan oleh Allah hanya untuk para lelaki saja akan tetapi kepada seluruh orang-orang yang bertakwa baik dari kalangan lelaki maupun wanita. Allah berfirman:

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Daripada ‘Aisyah radiallahu ‘anha, bahawa Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda:

إِنَّمَا النِّسَاءُ شَقَائِقُ الرِّجَالِ

”Sesungguhnya wanita adalah bahagian daripada lelali.”

[Sunan at-Tirmizi, Kitab at-Taharah, hadis no : 113, salah seorang perawi bernama Abdullah bin Umar dinyatakan dhaif oleh Yahya bin Sa’id kerana hafazannya]

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The huge body of information reviewed in al-Muhaddithat is essential to understanding the role of women in Islamic society, their past achievement and future potential. Hitherto it has been so dispersed as to be ‘hidden’. Akram’s dictionary will greatly facilitate further study, contextualization and analysis.

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Wanita Hitam Penghuni Syurga

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى عَنْ عِمْرَانَ أَبِي بَكْرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَطَاءُ بْنُ أَبِي رَبَاحٍ قَالَ قَالَ لِي ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ: أَلَا أُرِيكَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ أَهْلِ الْجَنَّةِ قُلْتُ بَلَى قَالَ هَذِهِ الْمَرْأَةُ السَّوْدَاءُ أَتَتْ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ إِنِّي أُصْرَعُ وَإِنِّي أَتَكَشَّفُ فَادْعُ اللَّهَ لِي قَالَ إِنْ شِئْتِ صَبَرْتِ وَلَكِ الْجَنَّةُ وَإِنْ شِئْتِ دَعَوْتُ اللَّهَ أَنْ يُعَافِيَكِ فَقَالَتْ أَصْبِرُ فَقَالَتْ إِنِّي أَتَكَشَّفُ فَادْعُ اللَّهَ لِي أَنْ لَا أَتَكَشَّفَ فَدَعَا لَهَا.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدٌ أَخْبَرَنَا مَخْلَدٌ عَنْ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ أَخْبَرَنِي عَطَاءٌ أَنَّهُ رَأَى أُمَّ زُفَرَ تِلْكَ امْرَأَةً طَوِيلَةً سَوْدَاءَ عَلَى سِتْرِ الْكَعْبَةِ

‘Atha’ bin Abu Rabah berkata: Ibn ‘Abbas radiallahu ‘anhuma berkata kepada: Mahukah engkau jika aku tunjukkan seorang wanita daripada kalangan penghuni syurga. Aku menjawab: Sudah pasti ! Ibn ‘Abbas berkata: Inilah perempuan kulit hitam yang datang berjumpa Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, lalu dia berkata kepada baginda: Sesungguhnya aku menghidapi penyakit sawan (lalu apabila sawan ku datang), aurat aku akan terbuka. Doalah kepada Allah untuk diri ku. 

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Allah berfirman:

 ﴿ وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ الَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّى يُغْنِيَهُمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ فَضْلِهِ وَالَّذِينَ يَبْتَغُونَ الْكِتَابَ مِمَّا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ فَكَاتِبُوهُمْ إِنْ عَلِمْتُمْ فِيهِمْ خَيْرًا وَآتُوهُمْ مِنْ مَالِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي آتَاكُمْ وَلَا تُكْرِهُوا فَتَيَاتِكُمْ عَلَى الْبِغَاءِ إِنْ أَرَدْنَ تَحَصُّنًا لِتَبْتَغُوا عَرَضَ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا وَمَنْ يُكْرِهْهُنَّ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ مِنْ بَعْدِ إِكْرَاهِهِنَّ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (33 (﴾

Dan orang-orang yang tidak mampu berkahwin hendaklah menjaga kesucian [diri]nya, sehingga Allah mengkayakan mereka dengan kurniaanNya. Dan hamba-hamba yang kamu miliki yang mahukan perjanjian (agar mereka dibebaskan), hendaklah kamu buat perjanjian dengan mereka, jika kamu mengetahui ada kebaikan pada mereka, dan berikanlah kepada mereka sebahagian daripada harta Allah yang dikurniakan-Nya kepadamu. Dan janganlah kamu paksa hamba-hamba wanitamu untuk melakukan pelacuran, sedang mereka sendiri mahukan kesucian, kerana kamu hendak mencari keuntungan duniawi. Dan barangsiapa yang memaksa mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah adalah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang [kepada mereka] sesudah mereka dipaksa [itu] . (33) [an-Nur 24 : 33]

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﴿ وَأَنْكِحُوا الْأَيَامَى مِنْكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ إِنْ يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ فَضْلِهِ وَاللَّهُ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ (32) ﴾

Dan kahwinkanlah orang-orang yang sendirian di kalangan kamu, dan orang-orang yang layak [berkahwin] daripada hamba-hamba sahayamu yang lelaki dan hamba-hamba sahayamu yang perempuan. Jika mereka miskin Allah akan mengkayakan mereka dengan kurniaanNya. Dan Allah Maha luas [pemberian-Nya] lagi Maha Mengetahui. (32)

 ﴿ وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ الَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّى يُغْنِيَهُمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ فَضْلِهِ وَالَّذِينَ يَبْتَغُونَ الْكِتَابَ مِمَّا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ فَكَاتِبُوهُمْ إِنْ عَلِمْتُمْ فِيهِمْ خَيْرًا وَآتُوهُمْ مِنْ مَالِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي آتَاكُمْ وَلَا تُكْرِهُوا فَتَيَاتِكُمْ عَلَى الْبِغَاءِ إِنْ أَرَدْنَ تَحَصُّنًا لِتَبْتَغُوا عَرَضَ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا وَمَنْ يُكْرِهْهُنَّ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ مِنْ بَعْدِ إِكْرَاهِهِنَّ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (33 (﴾

 

Dan orang-orang yang tidak mampu berkahwin hendaklah menjaga kesucian [diri]nya, sehingga Allah mengkayakan mereka dengan kurniaanNya. Dan hamba-hamba yang kamu miliki yang mahukan perjanjian (agar mereka dibebaskan), hendaklah kamu buat perjanjian dengan mereka, jika kamu mengetahui ada kebaikan pada mereka, dan berikanlah kepada mereka sebahagian daripada harta Allah yang dikurniakan-Nya kepadamu. Dan janganlah kamu paksa hamba-hamba wanitamu untuk melakukan pelacuran, sedang mereka sendiri mahukan kesucian, kerana kamu hendak mencari keuntungan duniawi. Dan barangsiapa yang memaksa mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah adalah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang [kepada mereka] sesudah mereka dipaksa [itu] . (33) [an-Nur 24 : 32-33]

Gesaan Untuk Berkahwin

Al-Imam Ibn Kathir rahimahullah berkata dalam Tafsir al-Quran al-Azhim:

Let's Grab The Opportunity Now!!

Beberapa dalil daripada Al-Quran dan Hadis telah menyebut tentang kelebihannya:

1. Firman Allah SWT:

[ وَالْفَجْرِ وَلَيَالٍ عَشْر]

Maksudnya: {Demi fajar dan malam yang sepuluh.} [Al-Fajr: 1-2]

Kata Ibnu Kathir: Yang dimaksudkan di sini ialah sepuluh malam yang pertama pada bulan Zulhijjah. Demikian juga tafsiran Ibnu Abbas, Ibnu Az-Zubair, Mujahid dan lainnya. [HR: Imam Bukhari].

2. Dari Ibnu Abbas RA, Rasulullah SAW telah bersabda:

((مَا مِنْ أَيَّامٍ، الْعَمَلُ الصَّالِحُ فِيهِنَّ أَحَبُّ إِلَى اللَّهِ مِنْ هَذِهِ الأَيَّامِ  -يَعْنِي أَيَّامَ الْعَشْرِ- قَالُوا: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَلا الْجِهَادُ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ؟ قَالَ: وَلا الْجِهَادُ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ، إِلا رَجُلٌ خَرَجَ بِنَفْسِهِ وَمَالِهِ فَلَمْ يَرْجِعْ مِنْ ذَلِكَ بِشَيْءٍ)). [رواه اأحمد 1968، والترمذي 757، واللفظ له].

Maksudnya: “Tidak ada hari yang amal soleh padanya lebih dikasihi Allah selain dari hari-hari yang sepuluh ini.” Para sahabat bertanya: Walaupun berjihad di jalan Allah?Rasulullah bersabda: “Walaupun berjihad di jalan Allah, kecuali lelaki yang keluar (berjihad) membawa diri serta hartanya dan tidak kembali lagi selepas itu (syahid).” [HR: Ahmad, At-Tirmizi].

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Hukum Kurban dari Seorang Wanita

Syaikh Musthofa Al 'Adwai hafizhohullah ditanya: "Bolehkah wanita menyembelih kurban?"

Beliau menjawab, "Ya, boleh bagi wanita menyembelih kurban, amalan seperti itu tidaklah terlarang. Bahkan Imam Bukhari pernah mengeluarkan hadits dari Ka'ab bin Malik radhiyallahu 'anhu

أَنَّ جَارِيَةً لَهُمْ كَانَتْ تَرْعَى غَنَمًا بِسَلْعٍ، فَأَبْصَرَتْ بِشَاةٍ مِنْ غَنَمِهَا مَوْتًا، فَكَسَرَتْ حَجَرًا فَذَبَحَتْهَا، فَقَالَ لأَهْلِهِ لاَ تَأْكُلُوا حَتَّى آتِىَ النَّبِىَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَسْأَلَهُ، أَوْ حَتَّى أُرْسِلَ إِلَيْهِ مَنْ يَسْأَلُهُ. فَأَتَى النَّبِىَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَوْ بَعَثَ إِلَيْهِ فَأَمَرَ النَّبِىُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِأَكْلِهَا

"Ada seorang budak wanita menggembala kambing di daerah Sale'. Ternyata dia melihat di antara kurbannya ada yang akan mati. Lalu dia segera memecah batu, lantas dia menyembelihnya. Dia mengatakan pada keluarganya: "Janganlah kalian makan hingga Nabi sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam datang lantas aku yang menanyakannya atau aku mengutus seseorang untuk bertanya pada baginda. Nabi sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam datang lantas baginda memerintahkan untuk memakan hasil sembelihan tersebut." (Jaami' Ahkamin Nisaa', 5: 603)

Wallahu a'lam. Jom perbanyakkan ibadah pada 10 awal Zulhijjah!!

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Must ASK Questions!!

Marriage Expectations: (11 Questions)

What is your concept of an Islamic marriage?
Are you seeking only an Islamic Marriage, or civil, or both? Explain why for all reasons.
What are your expectations of marriage?
What are the three most important requirements you look for in a potential spouse?
What are you expecting of your spouse?
What is your view of the role of a husband?
What is your view of the role of a wife?
What would you consider causes serious enough for a divorce?
Are you seeking a polygamous marriage?  Explain  why/ why not in detail.
How do you dress?
How would you expect your future spouse to dress?

About the Future: (6 Questions)
What are your goals in life?  Long term and short term plans.
Identify three things that you want to accomplish in the new future.
Where do you want to live (country)? And why?  How would you gain legal status there?
What are your career goals (realistic and achievable)?
How long do you expect to achieve those goals?
ًWhat are you doing to achieve those goals currently?

About Religion: (22 Questions)
What is the role of religion in your life – now?
Are you a spiritual person?
What can you offer your mate, spiritually?
How much Qur'an do you have  memorized?
Do you pray all 5 daily prayers? Do you pray them on time? If not, why?
Do you dress according to Islamic guidelines?  If not, why?
Do  you pray Tarawih during Ramadan? If not, why?
Do you pray any or all of your prayers in the masjid?
If you are a male, do you pray every Jummah prayer in the masjid? If not, why?
Have you ever performed Ummrah or Hajj?
How do you interact with non-Muslims during their holidays?

Daily Life Matters:  
Do you feel that both the husband and wife should share in household chores?
What is your opinion of speaking other languages in the home that I do not understand?  With friends?  With family?
Do you like to have guests in your home for entertainment?
How do you make important and less important decisions in your life?
Do you expect all decisions to be made as a couple, considering the other's views? Or do you believe the man makes all the decisions even if the wife disagrees?  How will you manage this situation?
Do you support the idea of utilizing baby-sitters and maids?

In-Laws: (11 Questions)
What do you expect your relationship to be like with the family of your spouse?
What do you expect the relationship between your spouse and your family to be like?
Is there anyone in your family that lives with you now?
Are you planning to have anyone in your family live with you in the future?
Will your spouse be obligated to care (physically or financially) for the in-laws if they live with you?
Are there any family members that are financially dependent on you for support? (partial or full support) Explain.
If for any reason your relationship with your in-laws turns sour, what should be done?
If for any reason your spouse's relationship with your family turns sour, what should be done?
If your family mistreats your spouse in a matter, how would you handle the situation?
If your spouse mistreat your family in a situation, how would you handle the situation?
If a family conflict reaches an unresolvable solution, and either your family or your spouse gives you the ultimate that it is “you or them”, how would you resolve the matter?

Dealing with Emotions: (20 Questions)
After marriage, do you think that you are one to express romantic feelings verbally?
After marriage, do you think that you want to express affection in public?
How do you express your admiration for someone that you know - now?
How do you express your feelings to someone who has done a favor for you?
Do you like to write your feelings?
If someone has wronged you, how do you want them to apologize to you?
If you wrong someone, how do you apologize?
How much time passes before you choose to forgive someone?
Do you use foul language at home?  In public?  With your family?
Do your friends use foul language?
Does your family use foul language?
How do you express anger?
How do you expect your spouse to express anger?
What do you do when you are angry?
When do you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in a marriage?
When there is a dispute in your marriage, religious or not, how should the conflict be resolved?
Are you willing to have intervention via an Imam, counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist if needed?
Define mental, verbal, emotional, and physical abuse.
What would you do if you felt that you had been abused?
Who would you call for assistance if you were being abused?

Money Matters:
What is your definition of wealth?
Do you give sadaqa regularly?
If you got married, and your spouse's family needed financial assistance would you be willing to help them if/when the need arises?

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Who's Kareemah?

In truth all praise is due to Allah alone and may the choicest peace and blessings of Allah be upon our Beloved Prophet Muhammad [sallallahu 'alyhi wa sallam] - whose words men, as well as women, were and are ever ready to study and teach. Aameen

Around the world thousands flock yearly to the holy city of Makkah. The rich history behind this city illuminates a yearning within the hearts of the believers, inflaming a desire within them to visit its Haram [Holy Sanctuary] time after time again. Truly a blessed city, it has been -and still is- ripe in imparting knowledge for those who wish to learn. Yet, how many have heard of the famous Meccan female hadeeth scholar: Kareemah bint Ahmad bin Muhammad bin Hatim al Marwaziyyah?

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